Funeral Planning & Celebrations of Life
Thoughtful ways to honour a person’s life, make practical decisions, and support those who are grieving.
What to Think About
Burial or Cremation
Consider the person’s wishes, cultural or spiritual practices, costs, and what is available locally.
Location & Time
Choose a funeral home, place of worship, outdoor setting, private venue, home, or another meaningful location.
Rituals & Traditions
Include religious, cultural, family, or community traditions that reflect the person being honoured.
Speakers & Participation
Decide who may speak, lead, perform music, share memories, or help guests participate.
Music, Readings & Photos
Select stories, readings, music, images, or objects that express the person’s life and values.
Celebrations of Life
Some families choose a personal or informal gathering focused on memories, stories, food, music, and symbolic rituals. There is no single right format. A funeral, memorial, or celebration should reflect the person being honoured and the needs of their family.
Share Stories
Invite loved ones to share personal memories.
Display Memories
Use pictures, photographs, letters, or messages.
Honour Traditions
Include cultural or spiritual practices.
Create a Legacy
Plant a tree, create a keepsake, or choose another lasting element.
Planning Details
- Confirm the venue’s availability, accessibility, and rules.
- Arrange transportation when needed.
- Choose an officiant, celebrant, or facilitator.
- Consider guest accessibility, dietary, language, cultural, and sensory needs.
- Plan reception details, permits, catering, and audio-visual requirements.
Consumer Information & Costs
What funeral providers must tell you
Ontario providers must give consumers a price list before a contract is made. Review the written contract carefully, ask which services are optional, request explanations of all charges, and compare providers before deciding.
Prepaid funeral contracts
Ontario’s Bereavement Authority provides current information about prepaid contracts, guarantees, cancellation rights, refunds, and licensed providers. Read the current Consumer Information Guide before signing and ask the provider to explain fees and terms in writing.
Costs to consider
Potential costs can include cremation or cemetery charges; a casket or urn; preparation or viewing; facilities and staff; an officiant; flowers and printing; notices; reception costs; transportation; and government documents. Ask for an itemized price list and written contract.
Planning a celebration before or after death
A gathering may occur before or after death. Consider comfort, timing, energy, accessibility, location, cultural or spiritual elements, speakers, and how guests may participate.
Official Ontario Consumer Resources
This page is for general information and education only. It is not legal advice and does not replace the current Consumer Information Guide or the terms of a specific contract. Confirm current rights and requirements with the Bereavement Authority of Ontario, a licensed provider, or an Ontario lawyer.